Don’t go around sharing your relationship with everyone, if your partner is not out there doing the same because believe you me, you will only end up embarrassing yourself.
People have a habit of thinking that they are dating a certain someone only to be surprised later with the hard reality of it not being true.
So its best you inquire about your relationship status with the person you may find yourself mingling with because what might seem like a relationship to you, can be nothing but a mere fling to the other person.
So save yourself the disappointment and make sure that the person you are dating is dating you as well.
Within the same breath I also encourage you all to learn the art of only showing your partner off if they are open to showing you off to the world as well. Don’t be deceived by anyone who tries to convince you otherwise by telling you that they like to have a private life but will have no problem showing of their cars and alcoholic drinks that they consume every weekend.
Imagine wasting your time telling your friends you have a special someone but this special someone is on the other side telling their own friends that you are an annoying someone who is just forcing a relationship on them.
And then in private they tell you sweet little nothings just to get what they want from you. There are big demons roaming these streets of Windhoek and if you are not careful, you may find yourself getting lost in this mess. It’s a jungle out there and only the tough survive. If your partner is not acknowledging you then do not acknowledge them as well.
In this day and age if you are still pic mixing your images with someone you claim to date then just know that, the relationship is a flop.
Others are there with their loved ones taking pictures together on their Iphone’s and are not in the slightest bit forcing two separate images taken at different occasions together.
By the way December is fast approaching so maybe you should start making sure now, before you find yourself heartbroken to the news of you being single while others are chopping the festive season in style. Secure your relationships before you find another female sitting on your man’s lap.