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Monday 22 April 2019
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Stop belittling women with kids

People have preferences yes! And everyone has the choice to either want to be with someone who has a child from a previous relationship or not. However I can’t help but hate the hypocrisy of men who make such a big deal out of it.
By name calling women who have kids ‘used goods‘ one would swear that women make children by themselves with no male assistance at all.
I mean if women with children are considered below standard by men then what are the men who leave women to raise their kids with someone else called?
The men in today’s society that constantly belittle women are the same men who lack the courage to actually tell their fellow male species to act better and take care of their own seeds.
Yet they stand tall and backlash females for no reason whatsoever. I had a conversation with a friend who told me that women with kids never get taken serious in any sort of relationship because no man wants to be accountable for another man’s child.
Which I found very funny because I’ve seen men date women with kids that aren’t their own and have no problem with it. More over, they even accept the kid as their own without thinking ill of the mother.
Men go around acting as if females are the only people that have issues with one another. Yet they make a big fuss about another man’s kid and pretend as if males don’t have issues with themselves. Which results in insults towards females.
I believe it takes a special kind of man to know that relationships go beyond just judging someone because they are with child.
The world, males specifically need to understand that kids from previous relationships will require more work, but it’s not an impossible choice to take on.
Don’t get me wrong I mean men are allowed to not want to date women with kids and that’s okay. But they should not just use it as an excuse to degrade woman every chance that they get.
Picture this for a moment – if the tables were turned and men had to bear kids and woman refused to want them and talked down to them. Imagine how lousy that feels.
So is it really fair to guilt trip females because of something they see as a blessing to them. If you as a man aren’t interested in a female who has kids then move along cause there are other men out there who have grown out of their judgmental phases and see life for what it really is.




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