Friday 18 June 2021
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A lifestyle is a composite of motivations, needs, and wants and it’s influenced by different factors such as culture, family, but most importantly, social media. Last time I shed some light on campus lifestyles, but now that I think about it, there are just some many other things in life that we are just never prepared for; I mean your family was supposed to groom you for life; they have eighteen years straight until you finally get some freedom to make decisions on your own. Like to stay a woman or not.

I feel for women who birth baby girls, I just feel that if the world had more men then it would be a much better place, don’t you think so too? I mean men would learn to appreciate women better, take care of them and cherish them and actually be faithful to their partners, no? One wouldn’t want to chase her off into another man’s hands now will you? Anyways, that is a story for another day.

The reality at hand right now is WOMEN!! I truly think women are the most problematic beings ever, especially towards their own gender. There is just so much prejudice on the lifestyle one chooses to pursue as a woman.

Nobody’s Ugly

P Square couldn’t have said it any better when they said “nobody ugly”. Apart from the camera filters that ‘just’ make your blemishes disappear, let me shed some light on “Men’s gift to women”: The power of foundation and concealer, I swear anybody can look like a billion bucks with those. Talk about the levels of face contouring and extensions of eye lashes, eye shadows and much more.

We live in a world of go make up or go home… can’t keep up? Run girl-run, with your tail between your legs, because they will make you feel so darn insecure about yourself, When we all know that  you should not be the one running. They are the ones most hard hit by insecurities, that is why they spend so much on cosmetics just to try and cover it all up.

But I must admit, make up and fake hair just puts you on a whole new level of confidence, but the reality is that no amount of make-up can ever conceal insecurities.

Battle of the biggest phony Booty 

The life of a woman revolves around constant battles, being the best girlfriend, wife, best employee but the biggest one yet: The battle for the biggest booty… the biggest boobs, the longest hair and nails… but for whom?

What is this race for? Is it to get men’s attention or just to be the envy of the next girl- but why? Why should you even be envied, if it is not really you, it’s a facade…a life that can be wiped away in one splash with a sponge full of soap…cheap soap rather like five dollar sunlight or something.

I certainly do not understand why ladies constantly hate on each other; Brazilian weaves vs cheap cosmetic plastic-braids. Whilst the Afro- heads relentlessly loathing on relaxed hair, I mean what’s your problem, Who ever said you are better?

But then again, who am I to judge…I’m just a girl who has to face these battles every day.


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